This goes out to everyone who has a heart to love and to hate.
I was glad. I didn't make that move in the end. Cos if I did, we wouldn't be together now, and wouldn't have walked thus far with the joy of a new member in less than two months time.
My blueprint? Love VS Money
Nono.. not the typical "must find a guy with stable income to secure your future or family etc."
This is about the claims you'd probably seek for when things turn nasty. Be it a break up or.. divorce.
Some people find it 'rightful' to claim back what he/she deserves. Most of the times, you see girls doing so. But you can't deny guys nowadays are getting a lil 'petty' too. You find yourself betrayed by your loved one. You think you havve given it all but he/she repaid you in such an unacceptable manner. You seek for the least bit of comfort cos you couldn't salvage the feelings he/she had lost in you - through money/materials.
Some friends who heard your side of story might sympathise you and encourage you to go all out for the best material/money compensation you could get. But do they know the true story behind the crack of this relationship? The cause of failure? Benefits of doubts ;)
Even in an adultery, who is to be blamed? The one obviously at fault - the one who committed the mistake. Yet in the other perspective, why would he/she be doing so if love still exists between the main parties? Haven't thought of that yet? Think twice before you think your friend is 'poor thing' because her husband cheated on her OR his wife made him a cuckold. We act differently in front of people. Never assume what you see is really what you get 100%. We're masked. We're good actors and actresses ^^
I read articles about that 44 men charged for prostitution of an underaged girl. I read FB status of a guy whose 'ex' girlfriend asked him to return gifts she gave and even to the extend of taking them back without his presence at his house.
For the latter, do you think that is ethical? I mean, to get into the house to take back what you gift? Wow.. I really agreed with that guy who posted "I didnt know presents that you gave out can be taken back". FYI, the guy was willing to return all the items. Cant she make it legal and opened? Instead of such sneaky act? Shame on her.
No matter how 'right' you are to take back anything or ask for any compensation, don't do it in the illegal way. You think it is lawful? Let me emphasize again, it is still a crime for certain acts you did.
(and Im refering to someone I know of)
Anyway, the moment you 'succeed' in getting what you 'deserved', you have disgusted the person to the max. Even if you claim you still have feelings for that guy/girl, it's the end. Why do i say so? Impression changes. The used to be angel impression of you would turn into an evil ruthless devil when his/her friends/relatives and even direct family members heard about the things you did just because things turn sour. It could be beyond salvage, but save some pride for yourself. Don't make yourself such a loser in a relationship. You ain't the winner just because you get that monetary gain.
Enough said. Headache is gonna act up if i continue.. Gonna rest~
Take care everyone!
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